📚 Should You Read This?
Toby's Rating: 7/10
We’re All Mad Here by Claire Eastham is a must-read for leaders who want to understand the realities of anxiety in the workplace and how to create a more inclusive, supportive environment for their teams. Claire blends her personal experiences with practical advice, making this book relatable and actionable. For leaders, the insights are invaluable in building a culture where mental health is openly discussed and managed, helping employees perform at their best.
✅ Toby's Top Takeaway From We're All Mad Here by Claire Eastham
This is how Claire feels when faced with social gatherings. She's convinced that she’ll make a fool of herself. Even worse, everyone will notice (and probably laugh hysterically).
Claire is not alone.
An estimated 12.1% of U.S. adults experience social anxiety disorder at some time in their lives.
Leading difficult conversations is hard enough. Even harder when you live with social anxiety disorder. This can turn into anxiety and panic attacks.
When you're working with a colleague like Claire, it's common to try to reassure them: "Don't worry; it will be fine."
Claire shares that this makes things worse!
Here are three things you can say that actually helps:
"Remember this is just a nasty trick. You feel distressed, but nothing terrible will happen. It's Ok."
"I'm right here. I'm not going anywhere. We'll work through this together. This is a terrible condition. I'm not going anywhere."
"One step at a time, ok? I know you're itching to think ahead and that your mind is buzzing, but we need to try and stay in the present."
🤖 Turn This Book Into Action
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💡 3 Big Ideas From We're All Mad Here by Claire Eastham
Normalising Anxiety in the Workplace: Claire Eastham emphasises that anxiety is a common experience that many employees face, yet it remains stigmatised in most workplaces. Leaders should encourage open conversations about mental health, allowing employees to share their experiences without fear of judgement. By normalising anxiety, leaders can create an environment where everyone feels safe, respected, and understood, leading to a more engaged and productive team.
Practical Strategies for Managing Anxiety: Claire offers practical strategies to manage anxiety effectively, both for oneself and within a team. Techniques such as deep breathing exercises, mindfulness, and breaking down large tasks into smaller, more manageable steps can significantly reduce stress levels. Leaders can encourage these practices by integrating short mindfulness sessions into meetings or creating a workplace culture that prioritises mental well-being.
Leading with Empathy and Understanding: The book highlights the importance of leading with empathy when dealing with mental health issues. Eastham advises leaders to actively listen to their team members and offer flexibility in how they work. Understanding that anxiety affects everyone differently is crucial. Providing options such as flexible working hours or remote work can make a significant difference in helping employees manage their mental health while staying productive.
💬 Best Quotes From We're All Mad Here by Claire Eastham
"Think of me as a smoke alarm, primed to go off at the slightest indication of danger."
"You need to accept that you have a mental condition. You can’t heal if you don’t accept it, that’s just the way it is."
“Social anxiety is a very treatable condition—one that you don’t have to be ashamed of or deal with alone. I’m right there with you.”
“What is social anxiety disorder? Claire's definition: The idea of social gatherings or being the centre of attention making you feel sick with dread.”
"In a nutshell, social anxiety is being hyper-aware of how you’re perceived by others and having an overpowering fear/obsession about looking like an idiot."
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